A Parish History

REMARKS AT THE ANNIVERSARY CELEBRATION FOR RECONCILIATION/ZION ON SUNDAY, JULY 31, 2022, HELD IN THE OUTDOOR CHAPEL AT ZION LUTHERAN CHURCH

by Elaine F. Davies

I want to start with a prayer for the Middle Aged taken from a Reconciliation 1963 newsletter.

“Lord, Keep me from the fatal habit of thinking that I must say something on every subject and everybody’s affairs.” 

When you are dealing with the history of a 152 1/2-year-old parish, it is such a temptation to start in 1869 and work to the present. Not today.

It is particularly difficult to construct the history of the Church of the Reconciliation. The information available is not comprehensive. Some of the most interesting insights into the parishioners’ worship, interests, and charitable efforts come from diaries and minutes of the many women’s organizations over time. I thank the Craver family for preserving many of them. I hope we will be able to find more over time. 

So what can we say about Reconciliation over its 152 years?

First and foremost, the Church of the Reconciliation was formally organized and named on January 3, 1870. The name is probably easiest to understand. It was four years after the Civil War. The country was in Reconstruction. Many had served in the war. The parish took Christ’s message of Reconciliation as its focus.  But the process of creating a parish started about 8 months before, and the first service actually took place on July 18, 1869, in the old town hall. The prominent men of Webster — the grandchildren of Samuel Slater—owners of the textile mills; their colleagues—other mill owners, and the owners of Webster businesses—whose names you see on the maps—came together to organize a parish and build a church. My new question is why the Episcopal Church? Samuel Slater founded the Methodist one. 

In any case, the records indicate that for a number of decades, parishioners picnicked together on the July 18th date to celebrate the first service—and I quote “a day at the lake was a real event in those days, and lemonade by the barrel, and roast beef, ham and pressed chicken were all on the menu.”  So Pastor Michael—this is really a fitting day to celebrate, and I think we should do it every year.

There were plenty of building events over time—the church built and dedicated in a year designed by a famous NY architect, the parish house, the rectory, expansions, and of course, my favorite—the horse shed so the more affluent parishioners could park their horses.

Choosing the right Pastor for the right time has also been important. Each of our 17 Pastors has brought his or her own special gifts, preaching the word of the Lord for the times and pushing the parishioners to be God’s hands in the world. Our longest serving Rector, Rev. Linsley, made a lifelong impression on the Bishop of Los Angeles,  Bishop Robert Rusack, who grew up at Reconciliation. He wrote: “As a boy, I went with him to carry boxes of food to the poor. I patiently held a pan of broth, which he prepared in a garret tenement room as he fed a man who could eat only slowly through a funnel, having suffered the loss of a good bit of his face in a mill explosion. Fr. Linsley went to the room twice a month so the man’s wife could get away for a rest.” 

What is clear from the existing documents about Reconciliation is that the parish—that is, the church, God’s people—even as the demographics changed over the years—followed the social and economic trends of Webster and the country. They took part in the war efforts of WW I and II supplying surgical dressings and clothing. The women lectured their girls on the privilege and responsibility of voting when the 20th Amendment was passed. They tightened their belts in the Great depression. They bailed out from the 1939 hurricanes and the floods of 1955. They dealt with the end-of-the-mill culture.  But throughout all the years, you can discern in the parish a thirst for education for social justice and to put the great commandment to love our neighbor into practice—-which makes our partnership with Zion and Pastor’s Church better together so important.

These charitable endeavors were linked to a thirst for education about the world with frequent lectures about Asian and African issues and missions over the years, including such issues as the effects of rubber production in Liberia.  We supported, for example, in the 30s,  the Kuling American School in Lushan, China—where Pearl Buck studied. There is a parish in Tanzania that has a matching communion cup to the one we use. The fruits of the parish’s international ministries continue as we support together the Mampong baby home today. 

But what is most heartening is to read the stories of mission and outreach recorded by our young people throughout the decades as they learned their responsibilities as Christians.  In 1920 one wrote: “We sent [Mrs. Houghston from NC] a box some time ago, and she wanted to thank us for it. She gave us a description of the type of people she is working with. They are people with almost no education. Their houses are very small, usually two rooms, kitchen, and room where the whole family lives and sleeps, sometimes there are as many as four beds in one room. They do not undress to go to bed……They had no form of social work.” Yet this one Webster girl recorded the simple joys experienced there as the women joined Mrs. Houghston for what she called parties, with the women quilting and listening to the victrola. 

The parish also supported many other ministries, including St. Agnes Hospital, a training hospital for black nurses and doctors, and many native American ministries. 

But, of course, big issues closer to home have been addressed over the decades. Right from the start in the late 19th century, the women organized to sew clothes for the needy of this mill community—without regard to religious affiliation. It seems to be quite a production with people responsible for sections of town and types of clothing. Probably the biggest decision was the one in 2016 to have the Rectory used as Reconciliation House—a halfway house for men recovering from addiction who were coming out of prison and then the founding of Opening the Word Peer Recovery to deal with addiction recovery in their own hometown—a topic first mentioned in the records in the 1950s.

So—seminal events—buildings, leaders, organizations, education, social justice—all are part of Reconciliation’s history and should serve as a foundation as we continue our path of church better together with our brothers and sisters here at Zion and explore new ways to be God’s hands in the world. 

Let me end with a quote from an inspirational speech given to a church organization of young girls in 1918 because I think it’s relevant for our partnership.

“Look inward. Look outward. Look forward. Look upward.” And I will add the following. Note that we don’t have to look backward. We know we each have a solid foundation.

Change the Babies

This Lenten season and in partnership with our brothers and sisters of Zion Lutheran Church, we are again focusing our support on the “Change the Babies” campaign benefiting the Mampong Babies Home in Ghana.

The Home houses 20 to 30 children whose mothers did not survive childbirth. Because of extreme poverty, illness, or other reasons the family cannot take care of the children and they are sent to the Home. In addition, the Home typically finds 2 or 3 babies a year abandoned by the river by destitute families. They are left there in the hopes they will be found and cared for.

Children stay from 4 to 5 years. It costs approximately $1,500 per year to raise a baby from birth to 5 years old at the Home.

Throughout this Lenten season, we will collect our spare change and make a collective donation to the Home. This diocese-wide mission is truly God’s work. Here we are truly making “our hands his hands.”

Thanksgiving through Advent

Please see below for a list of upcoming events for the Church of the Reconciliation and Zion Lutheran.

Tuesday, November 23, 2021 | 7:00 PM
COMMUNITY ECUMENICAL THANKSGIVING SERVICE
Location: 1ST Congregational Church of Oxford: 355 Main Street, Oxford, MA – joins the churches of Webster and Oxford. The Rev. Karen Fournier officiating.

Ministry efforts from both Church of the Reconciliation and Zion:
*Collection of children and teens (with some adult) socks, hats, mittens, gloves, and jackets. Starting as soon as possible and continuing through the winter months. These items will be distributed through the Webster Public Library.

*Starting at Thanksgiving – The assembly of gift bags containing  $5 or $10 gift cards, candy bars, and gum. To benefit the residents of the Reconciliation House of Webster.  Gift cards must come from the following: McDonald’s, Dunkin Donuts, Price Chopper, Super Cuts, or a pre-paid Visa card.

Wednesday, December 15, 2021 | 7:00 PM
BLUE CHRISTMAS SERVICE
Location: Zion Lutheran: 70 Main St, Oxford, MA

This is a Service for those who have difficulty coping with the Holiday Season and is under the direction of the Zion Stephen Ministry.  All are welcome.

Sunday, December 19, 2021 | 6:00 PM 
GERMAN CHRISTMAS SERVICE
Location: Zion Lutheran: 70 Main St, Oxford, MA

Christmas service is spoken and sung in German.

Friday, December 24, 2021 | 5:00 PM
CHRISTMAS EVE SERVICE
Location: Zion Lutheran: 70 Main St, Oxford, MA

Traditional Christmas Eve service with participation by children.

Friday, December 24, 2021 | 7:00 PM 
CHRISTMAS EVE SERVICE
Location: Church of the Reconciliation: 21 North Main St, Webster, MA

Traditional Christmas Eve service.

Everyone is invited to attend either or both of these Christmas Eve services.

NO CHRISTMAS DAY SERVICE AT EITHER CHURCH.

Sunday, December 26, 2021 | 10:00 AM at Zion. 
LESSONS AND CAROLS
Location: Zion Lutheran: 70 Main St, Oxford, MA

This is a joint service for the Church of The Reconciliation and Zion Lutheran to hear lessons and to join in the singing of Christmas hymns.  

CHURCH BETTER TOGETHER

Trunk or Treat

Zion Lutheran Church will host their first Trunk or Treat has been postponed to Saturday, November 6, from 3:00 – 5:00 pm. 

Those that will be decorating their vehicles are invited to arrive at 2:00 pm to set up their trunks. Please make sure that you have plenty of “treats” to hand out. For those not decorating a car and bringing a “trunk or treater,” or those that simply want to see what Trunk or Treat is about, we invite you to start arriving at 3:00 pm. “Maps” and parking information will be provided when you pull into the church parking lot. 

In addition to decorated vehicles, we will have cider and donuts, carved pumpkins, a craft for the children, and spooky music. This event is great fellowship for everyone and ALL are welcome. 

For anyone that is interested in decorating a car for the event, please contact Caitlin Seaman at seaman.caitlin@gmail.com, or 774-289-8404.

Haiti Fund

On Saturday, August 14, a 7.2 magnitude earthquake struck the southwest portion of Haiti. This devastating earthquake was followed by Tropical Storm Grace on Monday night and much of Tuesday. More than 1 million people, including more than half a million children, have been impacted by the back-to-back disasters, and the death toll is close to 2000. Episcopal Relief & Development and its partners are responding immediately with direct assistance to vulnerable households in the region, as partners plan long-term recovery. Your generous gift can provide assistance to help people in the wake of these disasters. To assist in these efforts, visit episcopalrelief.org/haiti-relief.